mei xuan told me this:

if you dun trust love anymore just cause of de guy who has hurt you..
den you will not be fair to yourself and de next guy who is going to trust and love you whole-heartedly with his heart..
if you continue to be trapped in de time where you & your ex-bf break..
den either you dun ever hab another bf or you must just let go of de time that you and hab ex-bf hab had and keep it as part of your memories..
den you will be fair to your next bf..
de love that you and your next bf hab..
will also not be interfered by ur past love..